Monday, April 2, 2012

The end.

I broke up with Dave.

It was not an easy decision at all. I still care about him a lot and I thought very long and hard about my decision. I cried a lot. I hate hurting people and the last thing I want to do is hurt him. Ultimately it came down to two people who have very different personalities and who are at different places in their lives. I still think he's a great guy and I want him to be happy. He was very understanding and mature about the whole situation and I hope that we can still be friends, but that is his choice.

I'm having a hard time writing this post. Even though this was my choice I feel very alone and sad right now.

16 comments:

  1. I saw this on Facebook and wanted to say something.

    I am sorry boo.

    I just went through this mess -- well, I am still going through this mess. It fucking sucks. = (

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  2. Aw Ginny... I love you and wish I could give you a huge hug right now. All I can say is, spoil yourself. You deserve to be spoiled right now.

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  3. Aww, I'm sorry. It's hard nomatter the circumstances.

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  4. Aww Sweetie, I wish I could be there to hug you and then take you out for tequila shots. Break-ups suck and there are no amount of words that can make them better. But if you need me, just call.

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  5. *long distance hug* It always sucks to go through a break up.

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  6. hugs & hearts.

    Everything will be okay soon.

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  7. Ginny, I'm so sorry. Breakups suck. *hugs*

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  8. Breakups suck, even when you are the breaker-upper.

    I hope you feel better and heal quickly.

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  9. *hugs* Break-ups suck no matter which side of it you're on. If I could, I'd take you out and get you drunk.

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  10. I know I already texted you this morning but I wanted to re-iterate that I'm sorry. No matter which side you're on, break-ups ALWAYS suck, and I know that this was a really hard decision for you. If I could take you out, I would, but since I'm on the opposite coast, I'll just let you know that if you need to talk, or eat virtual cookies, I'm always around.

    <3

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  11. It's better to end things sooner rather then later. I know it sucks now but it'll get better!

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  12. I saw this on FB too. I know I got a bit of the story, and I just want to send you a million e-hugs. A MILLION.

    You aren't alone at all. And the sad is normal at the end of things. That's temporary.

    Love you lots.

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  13. Super lame. I am sorry. But you know you made the right decision, which will be better for both of you in the long run.

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  14. Thank you everyone for your comments. I appreciate it.

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  15. Breaking up with people is the worst. I used to have mini panic attacks before doing it.

    Love you! <3

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