I broke up with Dave.
It was not an easy decision at all. I still care about him a lot and I thought very long and hard about my decision. I cried a lot. I hate hurting people and the last thing I want to do is hurt him. Ultimately it came down to two people who have very different personalities and who are at different places in their lives. I still think he's a great guy and I want him to be happy. He was very understanding and mature about the whole situation and I hope that we can still be friends, but that is his choice.
I'm having a hard time writing this post. Even though this was my choice I feel very alone and sad right now.
Aw Ginny... I love you and wish I could give you a huge hug right now. All I can say is, spoil yourself. You deserve to be spoiled right now.
ReplyDeleteAww, I'm sorry. It's hard nomatter the circumstances.
ReplyDeleteAww Sweetie, I wish I could be there to hug you and then take you out for tequila shots. Break-ups suck and there are no amount of words that can make them better. But if you need me, just call.
ReplyDelete*long distance hug* It always sucks to go through a break up.
ReplyDeletehugs & hearts.
ReplyDeleteEverything will be okay soon.
Ginny, I'm so sorry. Breakups suck. *hugs*
ReplyDeleteBreakups suck, even when you are the breaker-upper.
ReplyDeleteI hope you feel better and heal quickly.
*hugs* Break-ups suck no matter which side of it you're on. If I could, I'd take you out and get you drunk.
ReplyDeleteI know I already texted you this morning but I wanted to re-iterate that I'm sorry. No matter which side you're on, break-ups ALWAYS suck, and I know that this was a really hard decision for you. If I could take you out, I would, but since I'm on the opposite coast, I'll just let you know that if you need to talk, or eat virtual cookies, I'm always around.
ReplyDelete<3
It's better to end things sooner rather then later. I know it sucks now but it'll get better!
ReplyDelete*hug*
ReplyDeleteI saw this on FB too. I know I got a bit of the story, and I just want to send you a million e-hugs. A MILLION.
ReplyDeleteYou aren't alone at all. And the sad is normal at the end of things. That's temporary.
Love you lots.
Super lame. I am sorry. But you know you made the right decision, which will be better for both of you in the long run.
ReplyDeleteThank you everyone for your comments. I appreciate it.
ReplyDeleteBreaking up with people is the worst. I used to have mini panic attacks before doing it.
ReplyDeleteLove you! <3