Monday, September 12, 2011

What is this thing you call a #relationship ?

Perpetually single Ginny is now in a relationship.  How did this happen?

It is a bit of an adjustment.  I haven't been in a relationship in at least 2.5 years.  I'm use to doing my own thing and I like it that way.  D gives me the space I need but it's not too much space.  It's a delicate balance of couple time and just me time and so far it's been working out well.  But seriously I'm a pretty kick ass girlfriend.  You want to go to a strip club?  Fine with me as long as you spend your own money on $15.00 drinks.  D is not a strip club dude but I told him if he did go to pre-game to save money. 

I remembered that I still had my POF profile up even though I haven't used it in ages.  I finally got around to deleting it and let me tell you that was a process.  It took me forever to figure out how to actually delete the thing and in the mean time I kept getting instant messages from dudes.  Leave me along I'm trying to delete myself here!

Don't worry, this is not turning into a mushy blog with couple photos and "my boyfriend is so awesome omg!" posts.  I don't want to barf reading my own blog and I don't like reading blogs like that.  Plus we all know you come here for the cat posts.

11 comments:

  1. Yay! Congrats on the relationship. The best part about being in one is no more awkward dates.

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  2. congrats!!!!

    http://pleasebreatheandhush.blogspot.com/

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  3. Congrats! You definitely sound like a kick-ass girlfriend :)

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  4. congrats on the relationship!
    and i totally know how that adjustment goes. honestly, i've never really gotten the hang of it. doesn't help that i always date the guys who are like "yay, let's do EVERYTHING" together" and i have to lamely ask for a night off so i can update my blog in my sweatpants while eating nachos. haha.

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  5. @Tsa - thank you!

    @Lauren - I've dated those guys and I usually freak out because I totally need the nachos sweatpants blog update night.

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  6. Its always good to be in a relationship where you can have time to yourself. Wish you guys the best of luck! Sounds like your happy. :-)

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  7. Yay for relationships! I'm sure you can find a good balance between cat posts and "oh, btw, this is the dude that occupies more of my cat time now" posts.

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  8. @Kayleigh - thank you!

    @Tall One @Shelly- Bosco and Mr. Binx will not stand for this I'm sure

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  9. Go to the golden banana next time i do amateur night :) I won't get up on y'alls grills (even if a free lap dance or two IS on the table) but I expect copious cheering during judging time!

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  10. I love that Shelly's first question was how Bosco is dealing with this. Typical.

    CONGRAAATTTSSS GIIIRRLLL

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